longingfreesia | [Event Post]

Come in! We're ready for you.

::You hear a very nice older if somewhat airy woman's voice through the door.::

*Slowly, Kotori opens the door and tentatively walks in. She does seem rather nervous at the moment as she closes the door behind her, before turning to Noriko, giving her a small, polite smile.*

Thank you so much for seeing me, Wakahisa-san.

::It's a very nicely quickly arranged office. There's a chair and a sofa, with a rented desk for Noriko. She has out a Spell Economics book and pen, both look demonic, as the pen writes on its own.::

It's fine. I understand you have a case that might make it difficult to talk to more normal psychological professionals?

If you'd like to talk about it, of course.

::She tries to give a warm smile.::

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*The pen writing on it's own certainly catches her eye for a moment, before she walks over to a chair and sits down.*

Ah, yes. I'd like to talk about it. It's why I'm here after all.

Alright. Let me note several things before we start:

First, full disclosure, I'm non-human if you're not aware. If this at all discomforts you, please do tell me. I will strive to avoid bringing in personal matters or anecdotes on my end unless you feel they might be useful to hear.

I will not tell you what to do, to the best of my ability, as that causes over reliance on the doctor. If you want suggestions or tools, I'll try to offer what I can.

Thirdly and lastly, I don't think it's an immediate need, but I am a licensed hypnotherapist should you feel the need to use that toolset.

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*Kotori gives her a small nod.*

I understand and I'm okay with you being non-human. It's not something that makes me feel uncomfortable at all.

Alright.

With our foundation established, Ms. Mizuki, feel free to talk about whatever you would like during our session time, at your leisure. If you'd like to remain quiet, that's equally fine, as long as you feel it helps you.

*Kotori gives a small nod again, as she rubs her arm nervously a little.*

I'm not really sure where to start, it's a long story...

I guess the basics first.
Over the last few years, I've gained abilities which I gradually found out was from non-human heritage I have.
I'm half-demon, gained through my estranged biological father I didn't originally know of and I guess, I have a lot of trauma I've been trying to work through regarding him on it's own.

Then some months ago, there was a ... really strange event, that somehow gave me access to a full demon form which I struggled to control. I didn't react too well to any of this. I shut myself away from everyone, even my partner, fearing I was going to hurt them, before eventually running off into the forest in the mountains in an attempt to seclude myself.
Lucky for me, my partner is really stubborn when he wants to help someone. He was able to talk me round and bring me back, but the whole event really took a toll on me, both physically and psychologically.
I'm just... struggling... accepting the whole half-demon thing. It's left me having to re-build my confidence in everything and left me feeling rather down on myself, which isn't like me.

I just... want to be okay with who I am. I don't want to have to fear myself.

Hrm.

Why do you feel the need to fear yourself? What is it that you fear? Why does being half-demon feel like something you need to rebuild your confidence from.

::Her pen seems to be jotting down notes, as she listens to you.::

I'm scared I'll hurt people.

It took me a while to really control and feel confident with my abilities normally, but in that demon form, it's like they're amplified to a point where I could seriously hurt someone by accident. It's scary thinking I have an ability that could be strong enough to hurt... maybe even kill a person... or cause destruction to things.
I guess I'm scared that I won't be able to fully control it.

And I don't really have anyone who really knows my abilities well enough to guide me.
I had a small amount of training from my estranged biological father a while back... but that was only because he was training to use me. Make me into his personal soldier. He'd broken me emotionally so I followed his word, so it's not something I like thinking back on.

I'm planning on doing some training in the demon form with my partner, in a place where I can't hurt or destroy anything if I slip up... but I'm worried it won't be enough.

Maybe part of me is scared I'll lose my whole identity to it. I feel I don't even know myself anymore or who I really am.

Am I a demon? Human? What does it mean to be both? I'm really not sure of anything.

Permission to provide personal anecdote, by expounding on my "Not Human" comment I divulged about myself? That I feel might be useful here?

*Kotori nods.*

Yes. It's fine to do so.

I'm a demon myself. Albeit unlike you, I wasn't born as such, but I feel there might be a commonality of that anxiety of no longer feeling human.

But you feel your main concern is loss of control, followed by a fear of loss of identity?

*She gives another small nod.*

Yes. I'd say those are my biggest worries with all of this.

The concern of ability, I think you don't need to demonstrate here. If you would like to, I believe there is a room elsewhere in SAI for Psychic Duelists where they can practice.

So let's focus then, why do you fear this otherworldly heritage will lead to an erosion of identity? How does learning about it make you feel?

I guess, maybe, it kind of makes me feel I was living a lie? It's difficult to explain. I spent most of my life living as a 'human', then suddenly I'm thrown this curveball and I'm no longer what I thought I was, but I'm also not sure what I'm supposed to be? Or what I'm supposed to do?

I mean... I know what I want out of life, but I feel bad for some reason that I just want to live a normal life. You know, have a successful career, get married and have a family some day... all those things.

And even though I know there are some examples of positive demon influences in my life, it's difficult not to think of the bad ones too. Ones like my estranged father. Ones I'm scared I'll end up like, even though I know I'm nothing like them.

Basically, despite positive influences, you're concerned nature will supplant nurture?

*She gives a solemn nod.*

I know I'm probably being silly and my mind is just making up these worries, but I can't stop thinking that somehow, deep down, I'm a terrible person like he was or that one day I will be, even though it's not what I would want at all.

I've always been a person who cares and nurtures others and I wouldn't want to be anything else.

But he... he was able to turn me into someone who was driven for revenge, even if it was against my own wishes and nature, simply through emotionally manipulating me into believing I'd lost everyone I'd ever cared about.
And this was before the more recent events of me getting this new demon form.

If it hadn't been for my partner, Yuma, and his friends being able to bring me to my senses during that time... I don't know what would have happened.

Then the recent event that gave me that form... I saw a person... she was me, but a version of me from some alternate world who was raised by the Heartland in her world, and she was the complete opposite of me. She was like him.
She was the one who told me I'd end up hurting people, because I had no one to truly teach me how to control my abilities. So when I started getting that demon form she used and my powers went out of control, I was scared. I was really scared.

*She tears up quite a bit as the explains this. She takes a moment to try and quickly wipe the tears away, but it's to no avail as more just fall from her eyes.*

::That was a lot to take in.::

...

If you need a moment to take a break, and breathe. Or you want to switch subjects, please, do ahead, Ms. Mizuki.

These are feelings you should be exploring, but don't push yourself at a rate you don't feel comfortable with.

But the fact you are confronting them is important.

*Kotori takes a moment to calm herself down, taking deep breathes until she feels calm enough to continue.*

Sorry, I know that was a lot I just dumped at once.

Some of this I honestly thought I'd worked through, or was in the process of working through, but all this recent stuff has resurfaced a lot of the older stuff that's happened and it just feels like a big mess in my head.

I can continue for now.

Don't apologize to me, I just don't want you to go too fast, too hard, and touch on too much raw emotion that you're not comfortable dealing with.

It's my job to make sure you explore these feelings at your pace, but also keep them from harming you.

But, hrm. We can either talk about these demonic influences that are positive, or would you like to explore what kind of personality traits or sides of yourself you think might lead you to becoming this "Terrible you"?

The positive influences are two people I used to work with, Shiroko-san and Ai-san, who took me under their wing with their fashion design business as an apprentice for a few years. They were fairly upfront with me about their abilities and non-human sides while working with them and it was never something that bothered me.

Shiroko-san recently updated about how they're working on a line of clothing which they're using their demonic nature to sell and I really admired that. That it's something they can embrace about themselves comfortably.
Granted, my designs are pretty much the opposite kind of thing. I prefer doing very cute and brightly coloured designs, but I thought maybe one day I'd find a way to comfortably be able to embrace that demon side of me in my own way too.

Brief disclosure, in case you think this is an overly problematic conflict of interest:

I'm Mrs. Haita and Ms. Jouyoku's chief financial backer.

Oh! I didn't realise!

I don't think the fact you know them and back them financially will cause an issue though.

Alright, I just had to be sure. If it at any point causes trouble, we'll take pause there.

We've established you feel "Demonic" isn't a problem, that it can be held in balance...

Then what do you negatively associate here with your demonic nature, with this Other You that you met? What kind of personality traits, habits, anything, do you think are connected to it?

Just so we can lay out a ground work. If you're comfortable with that.

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