I'll be honest. It took me. Years? To get comfortable with myself. I'm not sure if I'm a hybrid, I think I got transfigured into an outright Succubus spirit.

But. It. Was. A lot. It took me even getting split in half into a bitchy Succubus and an overcompensating human to come to terms with myself?

And. Well. You learn to understand your needs. For me, it's that I had to well. I'm going to be upfront since we're both adults:

I need to be very sexually active due to being a Succubus and sleep around with a lot of people I trust. Which I was doing, but I need to be more than Monogamous, something my ... boyfriend, which I should fix to husband or something. And I both had to understand that I needed to be more open, and that what matters to the two of us is a deeply personal relationship of love, emotion, and caring about one another, and that sex is just a part of it.

Also. You learn quick to get rid of people when you become a duchess. Who want to corrupt you into being a huge jerk.